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Am I a selfish b....?
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Hi, Reader, I want to go deep with you today about something that's been coming up a lot in my life and work: what it means to embrace my power and pleasure as a woman. For the longest time, I used to feel guilty for wanting more, for desiring abundance and joy in my life. But, after many years of being stifled under my feelings of shame, I realized that by prioritizing my own well-being and pleasure, I wasn't being selfish—I was actually becoming more generous, more present, and more alive. In this week's episode of S.x.Love.Power., I'm going to share with you how I arrived at that revelation, to show you a different option for navigating this world as a woman than what we've previously been taught. In this episode, you’ll hear about:
And more. Listen now to hear how I went from being a people pleaser to being truly generous and abundant. I can't wait to hear what you take away from this episode! Love love, |
MICHELE LISENBURY CHRISTENSEN
If you can imagine more pleasure, more intimacy, more aliveness... then you were built for it and you have what it takes to create it. Subscribe to learn how with my weekly Love Notes.
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